Back in the spring of 2004, I had just said good-bye to my first pet of 18 years. An all white cat who loved very few people but most of all, loved me more than anyone else. When my Christmas passed away, I was alone in Hawaii as Michael was gone on deployment. I cried for weeks. She had been a huge part of my life and now, I was coming home every night to an empty house (well, except for the geckos, flying termites, cockroaches, and wolf spiders which frequented our home nestled into the rain forest of Oahu).
Shortly after this sad day, I started parking in a different parking lot at Christian Academy where I worked as a kindergarten teacher. Almost immediately, I took notice of a huge orange cat which was hanging out around the dumpster on this side of the school. Every morning, I would see him lying on the cement among the old wooden planks and wondered if he belonged to anyone or if he was even tame. Still feeling the loss of my best feline friend, I decided one morning to approach this big orange cat. I was pleasantly surprised that he not only allowed me to pet him, but began to purr and rub against me as well. I could tell that he had been neutered, and therefore concluded that he was not a stray, but did indeed belong to someone either now, or at one point in time. I needed to get into my classroom, so I gave the huge guy one last pet and said I'd be back after school. I looked down at my hand which was a dark shade of gray, and realized that although he was pretty soft, he was extremely dirty. I found the school's custodian and asked if he had noticed the cat out there. He told me he'd been there all year long and was probably abandoned when someone moved from the apartments next door. While it is pretty hard to feel sorry for an abandoned cat who lives on the streets of paradise, where it's always beautiful and he has the freedom to do as he pleases, I just couldn't stop thinking about how he doesn't have anyone to love him anymore. So, each morning and most afternoons, I would stop and say hello to the friendly guy who I nicknamed C.A. (using the initials of my school). Sometimes, he would even follow me to my car, and I'd have to sit and wait for him to leave before I pulled away. When Michael came home for a short few weeks, I took him to the school to meet C.A. He agreed that he was a really nice cat.
The end of the school year was approaching and along with that came NAVY orders to leave Hawaii. I just couldn't stop thinking about how this poor cat would have no one to pet it after I left. After convincing my husband, who was on deployment again, I decided to bring C.A. home for a trial run. So many questions entered my mind on the day I decided to bring him home: Has he ever been inside before? Would he climb the curtains in an attempt to escape? Is he litter trained? Would he claw our leather furniture? Does he have any diseases? What if he really does still belong to someone?
For the first 4 days in his new home, I never saw him come out from under our bed. He was obviously eating and drinking and using the litter box, but would just hide during most of the day. I called the animal shelter and told them of my "found cat." They told me if no one claimed him in 2 weeks then he was considered mine. Once he got used to his new home, I took him to the vet and had him checked over and bathed. They said he was at least 10 years old by looking at his teeth, had some Maine Coon characteristics, and was in excellent health. With a new microchip and all of his shots, he was ready to fly to Virginia to begin a new life as part of the Jones family. A few weeks later, I found out I was pregnant with our first child and a whole new set of questions entered my mind: What will he think of a baby? Will he try to attack it? Will he sit on it and smother it? After all, he does weigh close to 20 pounds!
But just like he adapted easily to his new home, he was also unfazed by the new little life in our home. He never jumped on the table, the counters, or in the crib. He stayed out of the nursery and was gentle around kids. He was loving to everyone who ever visited and slept at the foot of our bed keeping my toes warm. He would wait until the kids were in bed and then come "knead" us with his paws and drool as we petted him. He hardly ever meowed and several times escaped out the door to explore a for a few hours before returning home. And that's the way it was for the past 5 years. During this time, he had to have one of his eyes removed due to glaucoma and began losing weight. At one time he was over 20 pounds and now in September he was a scrawny 9 pounds and failing fast. He was diagnosed with kidney disease and most likely had kidney cancer. The time to say good-bye was very quickly approaching. I knew it was time, one day, when he lost control of his bladder. I wanted him to enjoy his last few moments so we took him outside and had a picnic with him. I told the boys what was about to happen and Mikie took it really hard. He didn't even want to look at C.A. and kept getting weepy. After saying good-bye, Mikie cried most of the day and kept asking when we were getting another cat. While C.A. can never be replaced in our hearts, our home just isn't the same without a four legged fur ball running around.
Here are a few pictures of our last lunch with C.A.




C.A. is buried behind the tree in our backyard. A loving companion with a kind and gentle spirit who will be missed and treasured in our memories forever.
RIP our beloved C.A.